Out of the depths I cry to you, LORD; Lord, hear my voice.
Let your ears be attentive to my cry for mercy.
Do you think God won’t help you find your keys because it’s not a big enough concern? There are more important things to Him, such as feeding the poor, defeating the Taliban, hovering over cancer wards, or preparing the world for Jesus’ return, right? So why would He bother to help find those keys?
Or maybe, when a migraine, cold, fever, or a yucky flu bug brings you down, do you silently doubt that God will answer your prayer for healing, because, after all, “it’s not cancer”?
If so, welcome to my world!
I constantly gauge my needs, pain, or “suffering” by other’s. In fact, I even had a hard time writing the word “suffering” because I don’t really think I know what it is—in comparison to rest of the world. If you’re like me, you may be encouraged by reading this article, No More Minimizing Pain, by Ed Welch of Christian Counseling & Educational Foundation (CCEF):
“There is no suffering gauge in Scripture, as if being burned at the stake scores a 100, Stage IV cancer is an 85, a broken friendship is a 50 and uncomfortable shoes are a 5. If there were such a system, a person whose suffering topped out at 80 would have to defer to the one who measures 81. The one with the less severe suffering would have to suffer in silence. He or she would have no right to seek the comfort of others or God. To do so would be hogging time that could be better used by more qualified sufferers.
Dr. Ed Welch, CCEF
I wish I had written this! But I couldn’t, because I live in the comparison world of meters, gauges, and deference. I question if my suffering is even on the charts!! Maybe a .003 on the scale of world-wide problems. Those lost keys, forget about them. And no hope for my headache as long as a thousands of parents are visiting their children in Pediatric Cancer wards. But, Dr. Welch goes on to say,
“The danger in establishing a pecking order within suffering is that you feel authorized to call out to the Lord when things are really bad, but you remain isolated and silent if your pain is below the national average.”
So the biggest fault, or sin, of minimizing pain and suffering is that it keeps us from calling on the Lord. And, for me, this attitude creates a dangerously false god, who doesn’t want me to bother Him unless it’s really Bad…somewhere between 75-100.
What a dreadful trap to fall into, even though it appears rather noble. It reveals my lack of understanding of God’s love and unbounded mercy.
“..when they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they are without understanding.”
2 Corinthians 10:12
The entire article may be found HERE. Thank you, Dr. Welch!