Titus 2sday, brought to you today, by Elisabeth Elliot:
A wife, if she is very generous, may allow that her husband lives up to perhaps eighty percent of her expectations. There is always the other twenty percent that she would like to change, and she may chip away at it for the whole of their married life without reducing it by very much. She may, on the other hand, simply decide to enjoy the eighty percent, and both of them will be happy. 
What are we focusing on today, the 80% or the 20%?
. Elisabeth Elliot, Love Has a Price Tag (Ann Arbor, MI: Servant Books, 1979), p. 97.