We do not dare to classify or compare ourselves with some who commend themselves. When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they are not wise. 2 Cor. 10:12
I think one of the hardest battles we have as women, is comparing ourselves with others. This thinking can invade every area and role of our lives. If we’re working outside the home, we look around, and wonder if we’re doing as good a job as others. Some nebulous standard out there says we must have a cleaner or more creative home than….who? Others, of course! And forget it when it comes to mothering! Organic meals, frugal budgets, home-schooling, discipline, potty-training, Baby einstein…it’s craaaaazy!!! No matter how hard we try, there is always, always, always, someone doing ‘it’ better…or worse.
There is no peace in comparison. And, honestly, I am not the best person to offer insight on how to defeat this monster, because it rages in me…everyday.
But, God’s Word can!
For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. Eph. 2:10
Know that the LORD, he is God! It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture. Psalm 100:3
For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb.I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Psalm 139:13
God Made You.
There IS no comparison. You are unique in everyway. Uniquely beautiful, talented, intellectual, spiritual, and, all together Wonderful! So why still try to measure up or compare ourselves with others?
It’s a matter of Focus.
We focus waaaaaay too much on ourselves. Or others. We need to adjust our sights, and focus on only one Person.
Focus on Jesus.
Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. Hebrews 12:1-3
For none of us lives for ourselves alone, and none of us dies for ourselves alone. If we live, we live for the Lord; and if we die, we die for the Lord. So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord. Romans 14:7-8
Working, parenting, teaching, cleaning, changing diapers (whether cloth or disposable), serving, achieving, befriending–Living–it’s all for the Lord!
Focus and live for Him. Freedom from comparing, peace in knowing He loves and made us, strength in living each day for Him, and Him alone…now that kind of life has no comparison!
Dear Lord, It seems that our flesh cannot help but to compare everything we do with everyone we know, and even those we don’t. It’s a battle we face day in and out. Help us to focus on Jesus as our standard, and no one else. Destroy our worldly speculations and comparisons, and bring our thoughts captive to the obedience of Christ. We yield ourselves to you. Let all we are, say, and do, be for You glory. You alone are worthy. Amen.
Please come back every Tuesday–Titus 2sday–when we seek God’s Word for hope, grace, and strength to be the women He made us to be.